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Love, attachment & boundaries

Understand your relationships.

Begin with the questions beneath attraction: what feels familiar, what you tolerate, and where connection becomes self-abandonment. Explore the author's perspective on attachment, emotional integrity and choosing relationships with greater awareness.

Why Love Hurts book coverYOUR FIRST BOOK · Why Love Hurts

DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?

A useful starting point if…

  • Different relationships seem to bring you back to the same emotional position.
  • You want to examine the difference between chemistry, compatibility and familiarity.
  • You are reflecting on boundaries, self-respect and the cost of losing yourself in a relationship.

INSIDE THE AUTHOR'S FRAMEWORK

Questions the book explores.

  • Repeated attraction and emotionally familiar patterns
  • Why intensity can be confused with connection
  • Boundaries, self-respect and emotional integrity
  • The author's 33 Love Laws
  • Moving from unconscious attachment toward deliberate choices

EXPLORE BEFORE YOU CHOOSE

Three essays to begin with.

Read the author's perspective in the Journal, then follow the ideas into the book.

CONTINUE BETWEEN THE COVERS

Why Love Hurts

Gabriel Nicolaev – CyGuru

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YOUR NEXT QUESTION

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